The Truth About Pageantry


The crown does not define you. You define the crown. You are what people remember when they see a crown. You represent. That is why your attitude, the way you react, speak, and carry yourself are incredibly important. Don't take it for granted, being a representative. There are people who would give anything to be in your shoes. Act effortlessly, give your time passionately, try hard, love yourself, know your beauty inside and out. Take each opportunity and run with it. When it's all said and done and the crown isn't yours anymore you'll be left with a happy heart, a better you, and life lessons you'll cherish forever. I am who I am because of those four sparkly points. And people ask me why I love the Miss America Organization...

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